Let's Go Wild!


The Shire, about 5:40pm

Hello Reader,

Something happened at 1:30 am on Sunday, 4th August, that was of seismic significance to our family. Several of us are still in aftershock.

Our grandson was born at 28 weeks, weighing a mere 1.125 kg.

Mum and dad were staying at the John Radcliffe, a teaching hospital in Oxford, UK, when mum was taken down to the delivery room. Within minutes a baby boy was born.

As I write, our new grandson is doing very well. He spent his first few days in the Intensive Care Unit (ICU), and a few days ago he was improved enough to be moved to the next, less-intensive, level of care.

To my eternal gratitude, all this happened, I learned later, in one of the best places on the planet for neo-natal care. God is good.

As grandparents, we are picking up the slack for our son and daughter-in-law. The family are doing well. I suppose this what my generation can do in these times: provide much-needed margin for our children, where and when we can.

Hybrid ICU

When I first went to visit little my new grandson in the ICU, I was a little surprised at what I found. My expectations from the movies was to see banks of incubators patrolled by a nurse or two.

I could not have been more wrong.

Instead, I found each incubator in the centre of its own workstation, monitored by a dedicated nurse. Behind were a bank of monitors with displays of the baby's body temperature, blood pressure, heart beat, etc. all wired up to that little life. Lots of tech was not so much of a surprise.

What was encouraging to me was that amidst all this, each nurse had a writing plinth, where they would be almost constantly be making notes by hand. This state-of-the-art medical facility had a hybrid approach--both digital and analog--to delivering the best care.

The Generation Effect

I recalled recent research of college students who made handwritten notes in lectures and were later found to have a deeper, more integrated understanding of what they learned than the comparison group that took notes on digital devices. Researchers called this the generations effect.

The generation effect is the unsung hero of creativity. I handwrite my Unburdened Journal each morning, and I extract notes on books I read by hand before later committing them to digital apps. In fact, I am handwriting the first draft of this newsletter. Writing by hand forces me to be more disciplined in what I take down as notes, and I add my reflections as I go along.

Sure handwriting is slow, messy, and cannot allow cut and paste. Yet it seems that this resistance helps improve clarity, creativity and retention.

Pen and paper is not the only medium by which we can achieve the generation effect. Rosemary achieves this on her Unburdened Journal using her iPad and stylus pen.

The Unburdened Webinar

In fact, Rosemary will be presenting her Goodnotes app template and how she uses it on our forthcoming Unburdened Webinar. Laura, another of our positive outliers, will be sharing about how the Unburdened structure has helped her find hope and freedom as a writer.

Come and join us:

Queue Idea!

Finally, much of my writing comes from answering questions, particularly from my coaching and mentoring clients, such as Liz. She asked, "How do you manage your portfolio of creative work and projects?"

I showed her. Then, I wrote up this approach in a short ebook:

Her response was,

"I used [the approach] yesterday and found it really helpful. I like the way you have written it up. I found it clear to follow. I'm using a whiteboard so I'll get some magnetic strips."

If you would like to talk to me about this kind of value-added coaching, I still have about three spare slots for new coaching or mentoring clients...yes, despite our grandson's delightful disruption!

All such clients have exclusive access to this and other resources. So feel free to book a discovery call with me at a mutually convenient time.

That's all for now!

Yours, somewhat delightfully disrupted,


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The Shire, Middle Earth, nr Oxford, UK

Thursday, 2;35 pm

Hi Reader,

Last autumn, around my birthday, my daughter took me to a farm in the Sussex Weald.

It was a rather more exciting birthday treat than it might sound.

The farm was the 3,500-acre Knepp estate, family home of Charlie Burrell. Over 20 years ago, he and his wife, Isobella Tree, were struggling to manage the farm using normal intensive farming methods.It was losing money. It was not working. Farm subsidies were more geared towards less boggy and productive land than was the case in that part of Sussex.

Then the Burrells did something brave. Charlie and Isobella decided to step back and allow nature to reclaim most of the estate. Among several initiatives, they introduced a herd of longhorn cattle. They allowed pigs to roam most of the Northern Block freely.

As I finish reading Isobella Tree’s Wilding, I am struck by the patterns that fade into view. Isobella and Charlie, along with their Advisory Board, realised that they had been missing so much. They reintroduced a keystone species, such as the beaver. Their understanding of oak trees and their care changed radically, and as a result these oaks now thrive. They learned and practised some forgotten fallow approach to the land. Fauna and flora flourished. Experts were amazed at how rapid this happened. Rare species returned to the land.

In summary, wildlife became far more diverse and abundant.

Then came the resistance. Public bodies moved at glacial speed to approve and support, while nature’s discoveries outstripped them. Neighbours were often critical, clinging to nostalgias that are very recent historically of what ‘normal’ British countryside should look like.

Again and again, ecosystems, where they are allowed, recover with speed. Often this natural recovery outstrips our ability to shift mindsets.

As beautiful as this book is, I am left wondering whether Wilding is really about nature, about the revival of the turtle dove.

Is it really the story of blind and stubborn humans?

In our pride, we struggle with any thinking in systems, in ways that allow for multiple interconnections. We insist on trying to fix one thing in isolation from all others. And we usually fail or harm other aspects in the process.

I believe it is time for us to learn humbly the subtle links across all kinds of species. An attitude of humility and awe will better serve us all.

Yours in humble awe,

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